Thursday, April 15, 2010
If I have RM1 million, what would I do?
If I have RM1 million, what would I do? Ermmm, I guess I will fulfill all my dream, like half from that money I will use it to go to Makah, doing Umrah or Hajj with my family. Then I will give some money for who is not lucky in their life because I want to make they “ taste the real world recipe.” I want they learn and know more thing in their life. I very like if I can help more people. Then I want to do some business that does not make me use more money but can give me more money or profit than the capital that I invest. Beside that I want to round the world, buy everything that I cant buy now with my family money. If cant I want to relax half year without do anything. Then half of the money I want to divide two then half of it just keep in the bank, half of it invest in the market share, that I hope can give me more profit. So that my money would not blow just like a water and not wise, may be from RM1 million it will become Rm10 million or more than that.
How do I communicate effectively with others?
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Secondly, compliment them! However, be specific, don’t just say you look nice. That doesn’t mean anything, but if you say, “you have a beautiful dress, it really compliments your skin color,” then you have a genuine compliment. Third, ask a person’s name when you first meet them and remember it. From then on, address them by their name at all times. Then, smile, but don’t you ever smile too much and lastly, have a good sense of humor.
Fourth, Listen at least two times more than you talk, you have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Therefore, you should listen twice as much as you speak. To show that you’re listening effectively, you must ask follow-up questions. A follow-up question shows the other person that you’re listening, and perhaps equally important extends the length of the conversation in a good way. For example, somebody tells you they love to hike. Ask, why do you like to hike? What is it like to hike? I was interested in hiking; could you give me some basic advice on hiking? By showing you listen, and by extending the conversation, you really open up a person’s heart.
Next is diversify yourself, learn about sports, dancing, even television shows. This gives you subjects to talk about, as well as chances to meet new people. In cases such as dancing, where you meet people as you perform the activity, you’re actually killing two birds with one stone. You get the chance to meet new people, plus the chance to diversify yourself, as well. It also gives you status, essential for getting the most out of any conversation. For people are more attracted to somebody who is diversified, and has a lot to talk about. Being diversified is an important commodity for anyone to have.
Then, understand that your worth never changes, as an example in my hand I am holding a check for a million dollars. I crumble it up. It’s still worth a million dollars. I step on it, it’s still worth a million dollars, I start rubbing it on the floor with my shoe, and it’s till worth a million dollars.
You are worth a lot more than a million dollars. In fact, your worth is immeasurable. Therefore, there is no such thing as ‘rejection’ as you’re always worth the same no matter what. Nobody can reject you because nobody can change your worth. Moreover, don’t be afraid of something or rejection because that doesn’t exist. Take risks, ask for what you want, and eventually you will get what you want.
Lastly, follow the step-ladder to success, imagine wanting to become the heavyweight champion of the world. First you have to beat, the lower-ranked fighters, then the contenders, and then finally rise up to face the champ. In order to face the champ you have to take those three steps in the order stated in the previous sentence. If you would try to face the champ before the contenders/lower ranked fighters, you’ll be “too green,” or immature as a fighter in order to be able to hurt the champion. Follow these steps in order, you won’t be guaranteed success but you’ll give yourself your best chance. Same goes with conversational skills. First you have to approach your second or third choice of date, before you’re able to gain the courage to face the ‘champion,’ your top choice date. You have to first be able to interact with fellow employees, and lower-level managers, before you can learn to deal with the CEO. Again, just like in boxing, you won’t be guaranteed success, but you’ll give yourself your best shot
As a conclusion, to make a communication be more effective, everything is depend on ourself. And honestly we must not afraid to speak about what in our brain, be confident.
Secondly, compliment them! However, be specific, don’t just say you look nice. That doesn’t mean anything, but if you say, “you have a beautiful dress, it really compliments your skin color,” then you have a genuine compliment. Third, ask a person’s name when you first meet them and remember it. From then on, address them by their name at all times. Then, smile, but don’t you ever smile too much and lastly, have a good sense of humor.
Fourth, Listen at least two times more than you talk, you have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Therefore, you should listen twice as much as you speak. To show that you’re listening effectively, you must ask follow-up questions. A follow-up question shows the other person that you’re listening, and perhaps equally important extends the length of the conversation in a good way. For example, somebody tells you they love to hike. Ask, why do you like to hike? What is it like to hike? I was interested in hiking; could you give me some basic advice on hiking? By showing you listen, and by extending the conversation, you really open up a person’s heart.
Next is diversify yourself, learn about sports, dancing, even television shows. This gives you subjects to talk about, as well as chances to meet new people. In cases such as dancing, where you meet people as you perform the activity, you’re actually killing two birds with one stone. You get the chance to meet new people, plus the chance to diversify yourself, as well. It also gives you status, essential for getting the most out of any conversation. For people are more attracted to somebody who is diversified, and has a lot to talk about. Being diversified is an important commodity for anyone to have.
Then, understand that your worth never changes, as an example in my hand I am holding a check for a million dollars. I crumble it up. It’s still worth a million dollars. I step on it, it’s still worth a million dollars, I start rubbing it on the floor with my shoe, and it’s till worth a million dollars.
You are worth a lot more than a million dollars. In fact, your worth is immeasurable. Therefore, there is no such thing as ‘rejection’ as you’re always worth the same no matter what. Nobody can reject you because nobody can change your worth. Moreover, don’t be afraid of something or rejection because that doesn’t exist. Take risks, ask for what you want, and eventually you will get what you want.
Lastly, follow the step-ladder to success, imagine wanting to become the heavyweight champion of the world. First you have to beat, the lower-ranked fighters, then the contenders, and then finally rise up to face the champ. In order to face the champ you have to take those three steps in the order stated in the previous sentence. If you would try to face the champ before the contenders/lower ranked fighters, you’ll be “too green,” or immature as a fighter in order to be able to hurt the champion. Follow these steps in order, you won’t be guaranteed success but you’ll give yourself your best chance. Same goes with conversational skills. First you have to approach your second or third choice of date, before you’re able to gain the courage to face the ‘champion,’ your top choice date. You have to first be able to interact with fellow employees, and lower-level managers, before you can learn to deal with the CEO. Again, just like in boxing, you won’t be guaranteed success, but you’ll give yourself your best shot
As a conclusion, to make a communication be more effective, everything is depend on ourself. And honestly we must not afraid to speak about what in our brain, be confident.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
How do you see yourself in 10 years time?
What do I see myself in 10 years time? When I think about it, it can make me always remain me who I am in past. To think who I am gonna be in the future, make me sick. Honestly I don’t like to think how myself in the future, but I like to imagine and dreaming about it. Ermmm…let me imagine, I think in ten years time from now I will be who I want right now. May be I will be the writer, because I very like to write about everything that had happen in my life. To become a good writer, the writer should like and enjoy every moment in their life and they should love to read, because from reading they can get a knowledge and the knowledge will give them more benefit in their life. Meanwhile with writer experience will give the reader enjoy and will share the moment or may be can help them in their problem because may be the problem same like what happen to the writer.
In ten years time from now, I will be on good career, may be will end of my single life, when I have a good career I will have my own assets and property. I want to fulfill all my parents dream such as go to Makah make a hajj or umrah, then after finish fulfill all my parents wish I want to fulfill one by one of my dream, such as round the world, buy everything that I cannot buy with my parents money, such as visit to Japan and see about their lifestyle, their history and everything about their country, because I love to know more about that country. With my good career I will open a business that can be improve my family economy. If I had end of my single life I want to become a good and solehah mother and wife. I don’t want to blow my money just like a water. I want make it more profitable, more benefit. I would like to give to who is not lucky in their life.
As a conclusion I will do my best to achieve my goal to make me become who I want to be in ten years time from now. I hope I will not give up in my way to achieve my goal.
In ten years time from now, I will be on good career, may be will end of my single life, when I have a good career I will have my own assets and property. I want to fulfill all my parents dream such as go to Makah make a hajj or umrah, then after finish fulfill all my parents wish I want to fulfill one by one of my dream, such as round the world, buy everything that I cannot buy with my parents money, such as visit to Japan and see about their lifestyle, their history and everything about their country, because I love to know more about that country. With my good career I will open a business that can be improve my family economy. If I had end of my single life I want to become a good and solehah mother and wife. I don’t want to blow my money just like a water. I want make it more profitable, more benefit. I would like to give to who is not lucky in their life.
As a conclusion I will do my best to achieve my goal to make me become who I want to be in ten years time from now. I hope I will not give up in my way to achieve my goal.
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